Wednesday, April 09, 2014

Poetry Month Event

Poets' Line Up: Matt Rasmussen, Rebecca Ramsden, Bruce Peck, Satish Jayaraj, Anne Sawyer-Aitch, Ted Hovey, 
Susan Hermse Schaefer, Roslye Ultan

Thrilled to participate in this morning’s poetry reading at Amplatz Children Hospital, sponsored by Cracked Walnut Literary Festival to celebrate National Poetry Month. 
Full house including kids at back

The lobby at Amplatz filled to capacity early on, and the appreciative audience listened as Anne Sawyer-Aitch kicked off the morning with a dramatic rendition of her children’s book, Nalah and the Pink Tiger, wowing the crowd. 
Bruce Peck

Next in line, Bruce Peck kept spirits high with his style and humor. 

I followed with a selection of seven poems, including the crowd pleaser, "The Purr of a Cat", from my book, The Adventures of Yin & Yang: Snoepje and the Pizza Box.  
"The purr of cat is stronger than potions, older than history, deeper than oceans; it lowers blood pressure and makes your heart sing, the purr of a cat is a mystical thing. It cures and it calms, it heals like a balm, and all that’s required ‘tis a stroke of your palm. 
A cat on your lap is equal to heaven, imagine then having three… six… or seven!


The purr of a cat, is really an Om, the purr of cat makes each house a home."

Satish Jayaraj, who organized the event, told a wonderful tale of dragons and tears, one of his original stories. Ted Hovey, Rebecca Ramsden and Roslye Ultan presented an engaging mix of prose and poetry from the heart.
Matt Rasmussen, with daughter, and organizers, Rebecca Ramsden and Satish Jayaraj

MN Book Award for Poetry Winner, Matt Rasmussen

My Loft Literary Center poetry teacher, Matt Rasmussen, winner of this year’s Minnesota Book Award for Poetry, closed the reading with a few selections from his award-winning book, Black Aperture, and a newer selection. 

Inaugurated by the Academy of American Poets in 1996, National Poetry Month is now held every April, when schools, publishers, libraries, booksellers, and poets throughout the United States band together to celebrate poetry and its vital place in American culture. Thousands of organizations participate through readings, festivals, book displays, workshops, and other events.



Friday, April 04, 2014

Unsettled



“Unsettled”: The title of my memoir, and a compelling anthropology of the Jews, by Melvin Konner, given to me with a precious inscription from Martijn shortly before our decision to move to his hometown, Maastricht. Today's NYT Op-Ed by Roger Cohen captures the dilemma of modernity - a rootlessness experienced by those of us who have had the 'privilege' of mobility. In his essay prompted by the question, "Where would you spend the last days of your life?", many of us revert to "a happiness whose other name was home."

With a birthday tomorrow, a brain scan scheduled next week, it is a worthwhile question to contemplate.

My lifelong quest has been to find a truly inner-peace that defines home. I found this sense just prior to meeting Martijn; it was because of that 'inner-opening', that self-awareness, that the full power and comfort within my relationship with Martijn was unleashed. As the words from the Kabbalah state, "When two souls who are destined to find each do, their individual strands of light entwine reaching straight to heaven, causing a stronger, single strand.


This is to say, a blessed union is an ultimate home.

I returned to Minneapolis assuming that the physical place of our mutual happiness would be home. I am coming to learn, yet again, that a state of grace is truly only possible with inner-peace, whatever spiritual practice one has, a calm knowing that right-mindedness and acceptance are the bedrocks of 'home', and each new day requires a determined focus in seeing light even when darkness shrugs in.

Loving others well provides the walls for true home, and the roof is being loved back.

Monday, March 31, 2014

Jewish Christian Understanding: Dr. Amy-Jill Levine in Minnesota

Her wisdom is surpassed only by her wit. Critically acclaimed scholar and author, Dr. Amy-Jill Levine, PhD is a force to behold. Although her lectures this past weekend, March 28 - 30, 2014, through the Calvin W. Didier Seminar on Religion and Contemporary Thought, sponsored by the House of Hope Presbyterian Church in St. Paul, had multiple titles, the aggregate message is singular - Jesus was a Jew, born in the first century before the common era (BCE), and only by studying the Old and New Testaments from this historically undeniable vantage point, can Christians and Jews come to wholly understand each other. 
 Dr. Amy-Jill Levine Didier Seminar

Dr. Levin’s mastery of ancient languages from Aramaic to Greek and Latin is a major source of her striking authority about how textural readings of the Jewish and Christian bibles have caused such perilous claims and accusations that millennia of massacres have ensued. It is a source of misunderstanding for each culture and religious tradition.

With intellectual balance, grace and humor, Dr. Levine captivates her audience using academic knowledge, yet sometimes acerbic,  sometimes self-effacing humor that is always on target. In spite of her Yankee directness, she resonates well across the cultural/religious divide.

Bringing lofty scholarly concepts to a common denominator is always fraught with risk. Famously, ‘the academy’ as scholars call themselves, look down on academics who are wise and clear enough to unbundle complexity; on the other hand, complex topics can’t be rendered too simple or the interpreter loses critical nuance. She bridges this gap with a command as great as that of the world’s finest orators or better, since she connects with and never loses sight of her audience. 

Through her critical, yet compassionate rendering of the intricacies of ancient Hebrew, "a language without vowels (like text messaging)", she explains how it is possible to ferret out nuanced meanings. Carefully interjecting concrete example after example, she guides the audience to see how interpretation of just one word, or punctuation mark, drastically changes deep meaning.

Rapt attention at Saturday’s lecture

But if that were all Dr. Levine’s lectures provided, audiences might grow weary. Beyond these critical textural illusions, she pulls audiences into the sights and smells of the first century, breathing contemporary understanding into ancient life. Weaving day-to-day activities with tales of archeological artifact findings and commonplace sociological and legal occurrences, Dr. Levine paints a picture of how and why disastrous assumptions have spread like lethal viruses infecting Jewish-Christian relations for over two thousand calamitous years. 

The Didier Annual Seminar was endowed in 1993 as a retirement tribute to the House of Hope’s Reverend Didier in honor of his ministry, with "an informed and compelling Christianity" as its goal. The seminar brings the "best comprehensive thinking in religion, the arts, letters and science” by presenting "inspiring and acknowledged leaders in their various fields. “

Rabbi Adam Stock Spilker, Mount Zion Temple

Rabbi Adam Spilker, spiritual leader of Mount Zion Temple, exemplifies such leadership. With wisdom cloaked in accessibility, Rabbi Spilker doesn’t catch his congregants on sharp edges, but allows all to enter Judaism through multiple portals. His reading of the 23rd Psalm in Hebrew at The House of Hope Church during Sunday’s service was at once lyrical and illuminating. Church members seemed transported by experiencing the ancient text Dr. Levine had been discussing all weekend in an actual service, from the pulpit, as perhaps it has never been heard previously. 
House of Hope congregants

Years of fragile, fraught misunderstanding cannot be eradicated by a single lecture, seminar, book or sermon. But it must begin somewhere. I overheard Rabbi Spilker recommend to Reverend David A. Van Dyke, instigating more frequent dialogues and opportunities. This type of sustained outreach is critical to overcoming misunderstanding. 

We are over a dozen years into the Third Millennium, the very title of this blog. My work, Intentional Transitions, is to bring about conscious, mutual understanding across cultures, continents and other needless divides that keep human beings from achieving their full potential, through workshops, writings, lectures and seminars. We are now in what a few of my mentors, from Dr. Clare Graves and Dr. Don Beck, to other noted futurists, philosophers, humanitarians and scientists, see as enhanced opportunities to rewire our own brains and to rewrite our futures. Dr. Graves called this Second Tier thinking. We are at a precipice where humankind can overcome our more base responses through education, outreach and understanding.

The work of Dr. Amy-Jill Levine goes far to create just such conditions. Please learn more about her and her work. And feel welcome and invited to hear Rabbi Spilker and to visit Mount Zion. 



Friday, March 21, 2014

Anal Cancer Awareness Day, March 21, 2014

It is five and half years since my beloved husband, Martijn Hermse, died of Anal Cancer. Today marks the very first time the world is focusing attention on this preventable disease. In honor of Martijn, it is my wish to join that quest.

Martijn Hermse, Maastricht, the Netherlands, 2007

Martijn was one of the healthiest human beings I’ve ever known. Fit, trim, moderate in his habits, he nevertheless contracted Anal Cancer, possibly during his university days in Amsterdam, where he lived when we met .

Perhaps due to Martijn's very robustness, he didn’t sense the disease until it was too late to effectively treat it. By the time the symptoms were severe enough that even he went to a physician, it seems the cancer had advanced to stage four.

Our primary care doctor in the Netherlands, Maurice Bom, MD, realized how fit Martijn was and thought if anyone could beat Anal Cancer at this stage it would be him.

Initially, the oncologist, Dr. Keymueller, thought the tumor was very small. Martijn weathered the intense chemo and radiology protocol extremely well. As he references in this video, perhaps too well.

The treatment not only did not impact the tumor, it seems it may have accelerated its growth. Or, the diagnosticians simply misjudged its size from the beginning. Whichever the case, after undergoing the chemo/radiation and waiting what may have been precious months, the next MRIs and CAT scans showed a large mass in his rectum.

The only steps were to accept his terminal diagnosis or undergo radical rectal amputation. While most experts explained that this choice still had very little likelihood for saving his life, if anyone would be able to survive and thrive, it would be Martijn.

I will be writing about the entire experience. Today seemed a proper day to take the first step.

Please take time to watch this amazing interview with Martijn, just two weeks post surgery.

And importantly, learn all you can about HPV and Anal Cancer screening.


Monday, February 17, 2014

Announcing the Launch of 
Hugism: A Path to Well-Being

As a natural extension of my Intentional Transitions work, my new cuddling service is simple, safe and research approved. 

Studies show that most Americans do not receive sufficient, safe touch. Cuddling is curative. All humans require touch in order to release naturally occurring chemicals that lower blood pressure, elevate mood and relieve tension, stress and anxiety. A recent CBS Sunday Morning report with Mo Rocca highlights this lack of companionable caressing in our society. 

My new enterprise, Hugism: A Path to Well-Being, provides professional hugs, companionable cuddles and safe snuggles. 

Please visit my new website Hugism: A Path to Well-Being for more information. 

Friday, November 01, 2013

Schaefer presenting at St. Catherine University’s 17th Annual Leadership Challenge Conference

St. Catherine University’s
17th Annual Leadership Challenge
January 30, 2014
8AM-4PM 
A Business Conference for Women
"Recognizing Possibilities: Taking Action"


Honored to be selected as an instructor for St. Catherine University's 17th Annual Leadership Challenge Conference "Recognizing Possibilities: Taking Action”, teaching "The Theory That Explains Everything: Organizational Leadership Implications of Spiral Dynamics Integral (SDi).” 

Spiral Dynamics Integral (SDi) is a unique transformational change formula and process that presents a common language and code to describe the relationship between the development of human nature and the rise of societies, governance, values and organizational systems. SDi elaborates the work of Dr. Clare W. Graves that Maclean's magazine called "The Theory that Explains Everything.” I’ll be presenting the basics of this theory that provides power and precision to the design of human systems and 21st Century Leadership, and learn how to apply some of its lessons to advance as an individual, coworker, and leader.

Some areas covered:
  • Different organizations — companies and governments — occupy different positions on the spiral and need to develop managerial/governance strategies that match their people, their visions of the future, and the jobs they perform today.
  • Managers should develop a consistent and systemic approach to all the issues within the organizational loop - recruitment, selection, placement, training, internal management, and external marketing - so they all align, integrate, and synergize.
  • Organizations should be constructed from both “the top down” and “the bottom up” to link the functions, intelligences, and decision structures that the more complex new problems ahead will demand.
  • Successful organizations are in danger of failing if they continue to manage people in the ways that made them successful in the first place.
Conference details:
Thursday, January 30, 2014
8:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m
Rauenhorst Ballroom
Please click here for more details and to register



Friday, October 18, 2013

Full Circle Friends

Susan & Robin friends since 1957 - 56 years friends!

Yup, I've known Robin Warshaw since we were pups! Childhood buddies, we met at Pennypacker Elementary School on Washington Lane and Upsal Sts., in West Oak Lane, Philadelphia. Robin's parents hosted the coolest Halloween Parties, so it's funny and fitting that she'd visit me this time of year. Umm, well, actually I'm lucky since I live literally across the Mississippi River from Robin's daughter, Becca, who is a freshman at the University of Minnesota. Really really great karma!

Becca and Mom

So when Parents Weekend was coming up I asked Robin to stay with me for a long weekend of sharing her excitement at watching Becca's remarkable transformation to a super together young university freshman while we get to reminisce about our own childhood, high school and university days.
Robin in my office/guest room. That's our high school graduation photo over her right shoulder!

Due to the peculiar gerrymandering of boundaries during our childhood, I attended elementary school with Rob, but we spilt ways during Junior High, me going to Leeds in Mt. Airy and she Wagner Jr. High. Ahh, but we caught up again becoming a part of the Heavenly 211ly graduating class of 1967 from the legendary Philadelphia High School for Girls. 

 My 100% accidental seat for the orchestra's performance! 

Becca's good friend is in the University Band - they did a bang up job!

Go figure that the first night of Robin's visit, we met Becca for dinner then attended a concert by her good friend who was in the band. Once seated we looked down and lo and behold I was in seat 211, our class number. Totally funny!

Robin went away for university and I moved into a rather dicey resident situation for my first year. Happily, Robin and ran into each other when she decided to return to Philly to attend Temple University, my alma mater. We became roommates in 1968, remaining together until 1970. 

Chris smiling, Becca glowering

Pretty amazing how in a good lifecycle, we come full circle. Now Becca is exploring her world, wings fully spread, circling all that life can offer. She has made great new friends, works very hard at school, and seems to like Minnesota a lot, which is good, since her beloved Aunt Ellie made her home here and she has family who love her. For me, it's simply a big, big blessing to be able to host my life long friend, see her wonderful girl grow into a truly remarkable young woman, and to ride the waves of friendship. 

Friday, September 20, 2013

Germany's Election: One degree of Separation


1° of Separation: As a graduate of one of the preeminent graduate programs in Europe, Maastricht University's Masters of European Public Affairs, which included training from the European Institute of Public Administration, I had a front row seat to the career of Peer Steinbrück, father of one of our classmates, who is now one of the contenders for Germany's Prime Minister, arguably the most influential position in the European Union. Sadly, he has been a loose cannon. I support Angela Merkel for many reasons. Americans have to start learning more about this great democracy and ally.
http://edition.cnn.com/2013/09/20/world/europe/germany-steinbrueck-profile/?hpt=ieu_t4