Friday, May 21, 2010

Days of Future Past

Meet me on South Street, hurry on down...


South Street Royalty: Susan with then husband Bob Ingram
and illustrator/author, Charles Bordin, struttin' South Street, circa 1981. ©Nick D'Aquanno

As I settle into life back in the US of A, I'm able to spend more time reestablishing contacts and context. For one brief shining period that was known as Camelot, my husband Bob Ingram and I owned an amazing bi-weekly newspaper, the SouthStreet Star. Those were wild and wooly times in the early eighties when the buzz and fumes of the late sixties and seventies were fresh. Alternative newspapers provided a critical link between the corporate and sometimes monolithic coverage of what was then the hay day of corporate news, whether it was print or media. There were basically three daily newspapers in Philadelphia at that time: the morning paper - The Philadelphia Inquirer, it's more 'earthy' or more 'blue collar' sister - The Philadelphia Daily News, and the grand old dame of Market Street - The Philadelphia Bulletin. Papers like ours were the blogs of the time. We had barely any funds but we had buckets of fun. And chutzpah! We had loads of that too. We checked our facts and went for the stories that dailies and weeklies didn't have the luxury of covering.

George Thorogood ©Nick D'Aquanno

Long interviews with South Street Rockers, for example, including guest rockers like George Thorogood were par for our course. In October Ruth Snyderman, Julia Zagar and some other formidable South Street nobility are planning a reunion. I'll post more when I know more. In the meanwhile, hurry on down, meet me on South Street, the hippest street in town.

Friday, May 14, 2010

Pompano Beach Renovation

It has been a wild and wooly 10 days. Rob McMahon and his excellent team from Island Remodeling have literally ripped the house from under me. I found them through a referral from Annette, the lovely woman I bought the house from. They began demolition a few days before I arrived, ripping up the old carpet, pulling out fixtures and appliances, removing a rotted entire downstairs front wall, scrapping off the outdated 'popcorn' ceiling spray, and finally riveting up the downstairs tile. All that remains of any original portion of this casita are the concrete side walls and the foundation. There is a spanky new "European" water heater that provides instant hot water and doesn't needlessly heat an entire tank. There will be new tile floors downstairs and in the master bath, new bamboo wood floors throughout upstairs and on the steps. Recessed lighting throughout was installed today. The kitchen is beech with lots of storage and deep drawers from Ikea. All appliances are the highest energy efficiency available including a small European Bosch washer and dryer. Basically, this will be as 21st century a home as one can make on a moderate budget. Here's a photo essay to date:

Look at the biker's babe - goggles on the pup. Cindy and I caught them and I couldn't resist snapping the big guy on his big bike and the little lady!

Appliances gone; closet door moved; ceiling fans gone

Kitchen stripped; front wall demolished - rot exposed

Hard step!

Closets stripped in Master Bedroom

Master Bath to the pipes

Guest bath spared the pillage!

Guestroom/Susan's office view

Ikea Kitchen Cabinets, beech; sample granite counter

Ikea haul - Rob and Chris speed pull!

Rob and Chris - the Ikea "A" team - they pulled faster than Ikea's own guys!!

Rob loads the Island Remodeling van - I got to ride shotgun.

To Floor and Decor - the downstairs and master bath selection: Italian ceramic.

Downstairs old tile gone!!!

Today, May 14th, Floor and Decor deliver!

My hero, Wayne takes on the heavy task of moving the tiles inside!

Thursday, April 29, 2010

My Brother, Allen Schaefer, 1928-2010

My brother, Allen Schaefer, passed quietly last night. During the past years we had shared much affection and attention. His son, Roy, was with him much in the last days. He is also survived by his daughter, Jill, and his wife of over a half century, Beryl. I will miss his humor and his poetry, but most of all his deep wisdom.

Wednesday, April 28, 2010

Almost Moving Day

A Poem In Remembrance and Anticipation
Almost Moving Day

I unplugged the fountain
its reassuring gurgle now silenced.

The plants take up residence
at the mother-in-law’s later -
my leafy children off to foster.

Knickknacks and tchotchkes
pruned, scattered to friends -
small memory gifts of going.

The purge is painful
yet therapeutic -
a peek at the waste of want.

But your precious items -
notes written in that wise hand,
the letters clear as a mountain spring;
the eyeglasses that framed your
noble nose, sat upon your chiseled cheeks,
the comb that slid through your graying hair,
your toothbrush, dear,
that touched those teeth
that my tongue oft lapped
when we lay in deep embrace;
your silk royal blue boxers - so sensual,
the ‘bumblebee’ stripped cotton ones -
so humorous;
these, dear, I’ve placed like treasures
in one small drawer to accompany
me to the new world.

©Susan Schaefer 2010

Yesterday was the birthday of playwright August Wilson, who said: "Confront the dark parts of yourself. ... Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing."

Friday, April 23, 2010

The love continues


A visit to Martijn's grave on this sun lit sping morning, the 79th birthday of his mother whom I brought a lovely bouquet earlier. A meditative break from non-stop preparations for my upcoming move next Thursday.

Saturday, April 10, 2010

Communications Ethics

Public or Private:

Institutions Need Communications Ethics

Author's Note: This article was written on July 29, 2001 prior to the key events that have defined personal and professional life in the subsequent decade: 9-11 and the current fiscal debacle. At that time I was an adjunct faculty member University of St. Thomas Graduate School of Business, Minneapolis, Minnesota, USA, and the past president Public Relations Society of America, Minnesota Chapter. The company referenced was a major health care system, providing relevance in light of America's current bold health care initiative. I have added it to my Schaefer Communications website as well.

Allina Health System responded to the investigation of its operations by hiring outside communications consultants. Articles in the Star Tribune raised issues about the merits of this practice; a subsequent commentary piece struck an apologist chord for communications consulting.

Both parties miss the point. The real consideration is not whether organizations hire external expertise, the issue is about ethics, the role of professional communications, and the public’s right to know. Imbedded here is a sublime irony in the intense scrutiny of public organizations and relative disregard of private companies.

Professional communicators are in a unique position to guide overall decision-making at all levels of organizations, whether as insiders or outside counsel. A practitioner’s purest role is to track and analyze global and local issues, attitudes and trends, aligning the policies and procedures of an organization accordingly.

How do they do this? As was the case with Allina’s outside counsel, they use internal and external research, analyze the data, make recommendations that detail the impact of actions on the organization, and design communications programs to implement these recommendations, including how to respond to the media.

However, if Allina had and/or used a qualified senior communications officer in an executive management position of equal power and standing with its legal, financial, and operations executives, it could have avoided the problems that sparked the controversy to begin with. Hiring outside counsel to help in a crisis isn’t wrong. Allina’s seeming lack of dependence on ongoing ethical executive-level public relations practice is.

Lack of full and open disclosure about their operational practices, failure to cooperate with authorities, the arrogance of top management, are all aspects of the organization’s poor public relations. And least your reading public think that Mr. Quimby’s commentary speaks for our profession, it is never our role to “push the bounds” in any direction that is outside that of the public interest!

Many communications professionals, particularly those who choose the voluntary public relations accreditation (APR) offered by such national organizations as the Public Relations Society of America (PRSA), are committed to a professional Code of Ethics that includes such precepts as: “conducting their professional life in accord with the public interest; never intentionally communicating false or misleading information; and never engaging in any practice which corrupts the integrity of the channels of communications or the process of government.” It is their role to insure that the organizations they serve follow suit.

Unfortunately, it seems that Allina and many organizations use their professional communicators as mere order takers rather than the reputation managers they are trained to be. Worse, many practitioners aren’t trained or don’t adhere to these standards.

Professional communicators use methodology and theory from such social sciences as sociology, anthropology and psychology, to determine human behavior. They study journalism, economics and organizational development. The best and brightest are trained to think and anticipate. It is their job to help organizations link and apply their findings to the legal, operational and economic aspects of the organization. This advice and counsel provides the ultimate vehicle for organizational success because it directs its gaze outside the organization and holds high an ethical perspective.

Yet, what makes the news are the misuses or transgressions of the profession. As in any field, there are good and bad public relations practitioners and good and bad public relations practice.

This gets us back to the question about public vs. private disclosure. It is naïve to demand less from private institutions than from public ones. How outdated this mindset seems. The very technology that many private organizations use to their marketing advantage holds the equal and opposite disadvantage (their view) for full and open disclosure of operations. Only the most proprietary data need be protected in our information-driven world.

Forward thinking CEOs understand that reasonable maximum disclosure creates trust with their multiple constituencies. Trust leads to credibility. And credibility builds a positive reputation or image. Nothing sells their products, services or stock better than a positive reputation. Communication professionals are uniquely trained and qualified to serve the role of reputation manager within an organization. Bringing such counsel into the mix as part of business as usual will keep organizations more in the favorable court of public opinion and less in the expensive courts of law.

Tuesday, April 06, 2010

Reflections on Turning 60

Suze and Pia at Ipanema Party, April 3, 2010
Suze and Sandra celebrate in Limburg's mellow countryside
April 5, 2010
Privileged to be with Sandra and Maurice's family, Levi, 11 and Britt, 10

It has been a monumental birthday, beginning with my trip to Florida, buying a new home there, reconnecting with friends and family, to returning to my home for the past almost six years here in Maastricht, Limburg, the Netherlands.

Transitions ideally should be made with great intentionality; some, of course, overtake us, like Martijn's illness and death. But even then if we prepare ourselves we can and should develop the awareness necessary to experience/feel the changes, integrate the feelings (sorrow, joy, fear, even neutrality), and hopefully transcend them. It is said that those who cannot feel deep sorrow can also not experience great joy. And so, I admit freely the depth of my continued sorrow at simply not having Martijn's joyous being by my side for this historic birthday anniversary. However, please don't mistake this sadness for depression; I am embracing the next phases of my life; I am sensing how much happier I would be if I could share it with Martijn; and, I nevertheless also am grateful for all the blessings I have.

Incorporate and transcend: I now will work with great intent to build on all I have in order to create a solid and wise next foundation. Thank you to all my dear friends and family for your amazing and continued love and support.

Monday, April 05, 2010

An afternoon with Jacques Ogg: Maastricht’s early music maestro returns to his roots

Back Story: Here is article I wrote for Crossroads Magazine last July 21, 2009, about my dear friend, Jacques Ogg, who performed for my 60th birthday. I am blessed.

An afternoon with Jacques Ogg: Maastricht’s early music maestro returns to his roots


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Sunday, April 04, 2010

Hitting the 60s in style

April 3, 2010 Susan celebrates her 60th birthday
at the Ipanema Cafe on the River Muese
in Maastricht.
Susan accepts a birthday toast offered by Bob while family and friends look on.
My dear friend, Sueli Brodin, kindly captured the evening (click to see photo album) which featured a concert by Jacques Ogg, Pia Brand and La Rosa, as well as duos by Bonnie and Piet and Sandra and Maurice, followed by dancing to Mowtown Sounds into the wee hours.

Saturday, April 03, 2010

Entering the Seventh Decade in Style

Tonight here in Maastricht I'll celebrate 60 years of life in a wonderful cafe situated along the River Maas with about 60 people. There is a certain symmetry in this. We will enjoy each other's company, conversation, performances, good food and drink, and dancing, dancing, dancing.

Friday, April 02, 2010

Finding Family

In this short video, my brother, Allen Schaefer, waxes eloquent over a snippet of our dad's history. This was shot in August 2008 at Allen's home in Allentown (a big joke of his that they named an entire city after him) Pennsylvania. Now Allen is critically ill so join me in however way you feel comfortable to send healing his way.

Saturday, March 27, 2010

Signed, Sealed, Delivered!!!

Susan signs the new home contract while Stacy from the title company looks on.
Annette and Suze shake.
Nitza Ramos, my fabulous realtor, and Suze celebrate at the beach!
My lovely friend and host, Cindy and Missy Cuda relax at home.

Saturday, March 20, 2010

Signed, sealed, almost delivered

On the right, with the lovely palm in front, my future home in Sun Harbor.
The back yard is roomy and inviting.
Can you picture a small koi pond with waterfall under the palms?
Soft lights, fire torches, great meals await!

After a rather shocking reveal at the previous property's home inspection, karma led me to a rather new listing at Sun Harbor. The house is located in the same quadrant where Cindy lives, the section closest to the Atlantic Ocean where the back yard faces. It was love at first sight and we made an offer on the spot. As fate would have it, this is the home of a friend of Cindy whom I met last year. She has lovingly maintained this Bahamian like cottage and I assured her I will do likewise. The inspection is set for Tuesday, and closing on Friday!

Sunday, March 14, 2010

Family, Friends and Real Estate

FAMILY
Life's events converge and flare out again. During the past difficult years my brother, Allen Schaefer, has been a great comfort to me. We've spoken once or twice a week and since Allen is 23 years older than I, he's provided the kind of wisdom, love and support that I imagine our dad would have. Now Allen is ailing and I'm very sad. Since I'm making a sudden trip back to the States for business, I hope to see him.
My brother, Allen Schaefer, at 80, 2008.

FRIENDS AND REAL ESTATE
A year ago I began to search for a home to own back in the States. I stayed a few weeks with my friend Cindy and decided that Pompano Beach, where Martijn and I always spent our wedding anniversary was a good place to sink roots. My parents moved to Central Florida in 1973, while I was on a spiritual journey throughout India. Since then I've flirted with Florida. Martijn spoke longingly of Pompano, and now, it seems, I'm about to own one of their cozy townhomes, a fifteen minute walk to the beach. I plan to stay based in Maastricht a while longer, but will gradually customize my little place in the sun for longer stays.
Sun Harbor Townhomes sit just north of 844 and west of the Intercostal Waterway.
Cindy and friend, on Cindy's dock, Sun Harbor Townhomes, Pompano Beach, Florida, April 2009
The welcoming sign.
Sun Harbor's Pool
Long view of Sun Harbor's Marina

Sunday, February 28, 2010

Sueli's gift

Sueli Brodin and Suze, January 2010

It takes a lot to make me blush. But my dear friend, Sueli Brodin, managed. She totally surprised me with a lovely 'tribute' in her weekly blog about the Maastricht region. I am hushed and honored by her thoughts, feelings and friendship. She entitled it: Susan's gift. Please click the link if you'd like to read.

Wednesday, February 24, 2010

Poetry at Pecha Kucha Maastricht

Susan kick starts Pecha Kucha evening in Maastricht, Saturday, February 20, 2010, at AINSI Performance Theater. Photo © Bert Janssen

On Saturday evening, February 20, 2010, encouraged by my dear friend Sueli Brodin, newly appointed to Maastricht's Pecha Kucha working board, I stepped from behind the curtains of grief and back upon a stage. Many Pecha Kucha performers must conquer a number of fears - performance anxiety is a well-known obstacle. But for me that was not the case, I have been a performer, at ease in front of audiences, for years. Rather, my courage in taking up the gauntlet was about being in the spotlight without my greatest fan being in the audience. Seeing Martijn's wide and loving smile always lit me into 'being'. The challenge was in fact to heed my own words - to take up the mantle of intentional transition - to move forward from my loss and continue to evolve and to make a difference for humanity.

Click here to watch Susan's Performance

In this poetic homage to change, I weave my own poetry with established theories of human development hoping to inspire the audience to consider their extra ordinary qualities to embark on self-transformation. The poems are: The Tendrils, Contradictory Me, Cat Struttin', and the long final piece, ExtraOrdinary.
Photo © Bert Janssen
R to L: Sueli Brodin, (Crossroads), Martijn Kagenaar (Zuiderlicht), one of the talented technicians, Nathalie Dirks, Maastricht University and Pierre Buijs (Creovate) confer behind the complex console used to stream each of the 12 slide shows and to record the entire evening's performances. PKN Maastricht is known to be one of the most professionally managed within the PKN family of cities - now approaching almost 300 spots around the globe!!
Photo © Bert Janssen
PKN Maastricht has been playing to sold out audiences since its inception, January 20, 2009
Photo © Bert Janssen
At AINSI Performance Centre the audiences can reach over 350.
Photo © Bert Janssen
PKN Maastricht features one intermission and an after party with music and dancing.

20x20 What is PechaKucha?

PechaKucha Night was devised in Tokyo in February 2003 as an event for young designers to meet, network, and show their work in public.

It has turned into a massive celebration, with events happening in hundreds of cities around the world, inspiring creatives worldwide. Drawing its name from the Japanese term for the sound of "chit chat", it rests on a presentation format that is based on a simple idea: 20 images x 20 seconds. It's a format that makes presentations concise, and keeps things moving at a rapid pace.

Sunday, February 07, 2010

Amazing Amsterdam

In the foreground the fabled gabled Amsterdam rooftops looking along
Leidsestraat towards Leidseplein. I came to this city where I fell in love in Martijn for a weekend of meetings, a conference, a speech and hanging out with good friends.
An evening interrupted: I arrived in the city on Thursday evening, February 4th to meet with the energetic vice-chair of Democrats Abroad, Netherlands, Claire Taylor. After an animated dinner meeting at the Jo Coenen Central Library, Claire offered me "the Dutch-back-bumper-bike ride" to the home of Sjoerd and Merle Soeters on the Prinsengraat, my hosts for the weekend. Oops, we tumbled hard enough that Claire crushed her ankle. Sjoerd came to our rescue transporting us to the emergency clinic. Claire had her broken ankle cast and we got her safely home. Ouch. She'll be 4 - 6 weeks recovering!
It was Claire who originally notified me that the Reverend Jesse Jackson was to speak at the last event in a series hosted by the John Adams Institute, an American cultural forum based in Amsterdam. The Reverend Jackson delivered a fiery and inspiring speech to a sold-out crowd. I had invited my friend Merle along, and we both found the event very worthwhile.
Saturday Merle took me to the market just across from their incredible canal house. As the blizzard raged on the United States east coast, I purchased this cute hat, scarf ensemble in wintery solidarity.
It was great fun cooking in Sjoerd and Merle's wonderful kitchen that afternoon in anticipation of the arrival of Ton Schaap and partner, Herman Rouw, above tasting a fine wine with Sjoerd. We feasted and I got to practice active Dutch language listening.

Back home in Maastricht I had the bittersweet task of saying goodbye to my housemate of the past 6 months, Carmen Echávarri Zalba, pictured here second from right, as she left this evening for her new adventures in Amsterdam where she is trying to secure a grant for her PhD work in neurology, specializing in disorders of dementia. I will miss her sorely. We've developed a warm friendship over these past months and I wish her well. This is a photo from the welcome party at my home some months ago. That's my dear friend, Bob Wilkinson, left, Anna, Pilar and Marie, Carmen's friends from Spain, Pia Brand, next and Sueli Brodin to the right of Carmen. Yours truly is kneeling at foreground.